
I hope you enjoyed that 3+ minutes of elegance. Maybe the best way to stay motivated to exercise is to become a ballet
dancer. There's something about having every inch of your body captured on film
(like the above), then having that image reproduced for all the world to see,
that makes working out more of a necessity rather than a luxury. Getting a
paycheck based on maintaining a certain shape or size helps too.
Since
most of us don't have the kind of job that motivates us in quite the same way
(thank God!), we have to work a little harder to keep the momentum flowing. The
hard truth is, motivation isn't something you wait for and it isn't something
that just happens when the time is right. It's something you have to work to
find, not just today, but every day.
Sound
depressing? .... What about you? What
keeps you going day after day? Do you find that what motivates you one day
doesn't always work the next? Leave a comment and tell us your ideas for how to
stay motivated to exercise.
Here’s
some ideas to help make the process easier:
Think back to previous attempts at losing
weight or exercising. What made you quit before and are you on the same path
now? If so, you may be stuck in a pattern you haven't noticed before. Break it
by figuring out what went wrong before.
Make your own list and then figure out how
to get around these issues. If the diet is too strict, make smaller changes you
can live with every day. If you're busy, try shorter workouts. Change what
you're doing until it works.
Most people fail at their fitness goals
because they're waiting for something spectacular to happen. Losing weight isn't
always a spectacular process...in fact, it isn't even a linear process
sometimes. What you may find is that you lose a little, gain a little and
repeat the process again and again.
There are no shortcuts to weight loss so
even if you're frustrated that your body hasn't changed, don't give up. If
you're burning more calories than you eat, your body is changing, even if it's
slower than you'd like. Make sure your goals are realistic and, most
importantly, that you give your body the time it needs to respond to what
you're doing. It can be weeks, often months before changes start to show.
We all get a spurt of motivation when
deciding to lose weight and that energy carries us through the first few weeks
of a workout and diet plan. However, it's normal to lose some of that energy
after a month or two and wonder if you should just give up. Before you do, try
these tips:
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Revisit your goals - Do
they still mean something to you?
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Think about how far
you've come - Don't just look at how much weight you've lost, but other ways
your life has improved. Are you stronger or faster? Do you feel better about
yourself? Could you use those feelings to keep going now?
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Change things up -
Variety can infuse more energy into your workouts. Try changing your workout
schedule or trying something new to stay interested in exercise.
It's surprisingly easy to get excited about
exercise and it's called massage. There's nothing that feels better than
finishing up a week's worth of workouts followed by a relaxing massage.
Schedule one once a month if you can or, if massages aren't your thing, try
some other ideas:
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Buying new workout gear
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A weekend getaway
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A night chilling out with
your favorite TV show
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A new book or song you've
been wanting
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An MP3 player for your
workouts
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A new computer game you
can only play after exercise
Before you quit, try everything you can to
stay on track. Instead of drifting away from exercise without acknowledging it,
give yourself a minimum amount of exercise to get in each week. When you dip
below that (or stop altogether), promise yourself you'll try other things
before you quit altogether:
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Hire a personal trainer
or work with one online
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Find a workout buddy
·
Join a fitness group or
gym
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Try a new way of
exercising - a video, a class, a sport, etc.
Sometimes you just need something new and
fun to keep you going.
Some people think if they exercise long
enough, they'll wake up one day and suddenly love exercising and eating
healthy. While it does get easier, you'll always have to find ways to motivate
yourself for your workouts. If you're waiting for a shining moment of
excitement, you might be waiting for a long time. Instead, you can make it
happen!
Every day is different. What motivated you
yesterday may not work today, so sift through what inspires you to find that
one thing that will get you out the door. It may be pants you want to fit into
or competing with your friend (he's working out--you don't want to fall behind,
do you?). Before you skip your workout,
try these ideas to get moving:
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I'll feel good about
myself if I finish my workout
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I'll just warm up and, if
I want to stop, I can
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I'm going to dinner
tonight, so I know I need this workout to balance my calories
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This workout will give me
more energy for the rest of my day
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If I finish this workout,
I can spend some time reading, watching TV or playing around on the computer
Being bored is the perfect time to try
something new. You'll be more willing to try things you may have dismissed
because they didn't fit within your definition of exercise. It could be belly-dancing,
a latin dance class or that spinning class at the gym. Or try something more
mind/body like Pilates or Yoga.
If what you're doing isn't working, it's time to find
something that will. Sometimes even just a new piece of equipment or a workout
is enough to get you moving again ....or maybe you will become a ballet dancer!